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Tuesday, November 10, 2020

Thankful November: Day 9 (only a little late)

Sometimes it's the little things that make you feel like you really got something done.  As a mom, my kids ask me to do a lot of things for them, and while I say I'll do them, and have every intention of doing them, so many times those things are left incomplete ... or worse, not even started.

But recently Mollie asked me if I could help her bring a little extra light to the cabinet she was using as a Barbie apartment, and I actually followed through on it!  





It didn't take long and it wasn't difficult, but it made her day and that felt so good.  Just a simple strand of fairy lights and sticky tack/poster putty did the job wonderfully.  

As much as I hate to admit it, completing projects is often elusive for me, so seeing one through to the end, no matter how small a project, is a really great feeling.

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Amalia's Barbie House

When Mollie asked for a Barbie dollhouse for her fifth birthday last March, I immediately starting scouring websites and stores for all the options available to us that were close to our budget.  Unfortunately, what I came up with were a lot of either uber pink plastic houses (that are apparently a real pain to put together, can't sleep more than one or two dolls, and aren't durable) or sized incorrectly for the dolls they are supposed to house, and none of them seemed to be worth what they cost.  During my search, a lot of homemade dollhouses kept popping up, piquing my DIY interests to the extreme.  "Why not craft the exact dollhouse I'd like Mollie to have?" I thought.  So I dove in head-first, sketching out a floor plan and refining the dimensions for the space I had in mind for it.  She had already amassed quite a few Barbies, and I wanted the house to be able to fit all of them comfortably, so the final plan ended up being large enough that the house would be a semi-permanent fixture in the living room for the foreseeable future.  All the more reason to do it up right, right?

I set off to Home Depot to gather all the necessary supplies and was instantly overwhelmed with all the wood I came home with.   



Once I got it laid out, though, it seemed more manageable.


I had to pick up a few more tools, namely hole saws and a couple clamps to go with the ones we borrowed from our dads. (Thanks, guys!)  Then I set to work making bubbly-looking windows.  



Unfortunately, the wood didn't cut quite as cleanly as I had hoped it would.




Let's just say, I had a lot of patch work to do, not to mention all the sanding!

I had casually asked Amalia once while we were picking stuff up at Lowe's one day which wood stain she liked best.  After carefully considering it, she picked one, and that is the one I ended up using to stain the "hardwood" floors of the house.  Ooh, and they were wipes, so I didn't have to deal with a drippy paint can!  Win-win!


Mollie wasn't in school all day yet, so I did a lot of the work after the kids were in bed and here and there when I could get someone to watch one or both of them.


Math and measuring are not my strong suits, so I had to lay this bad boy out multiple times before I did any finish painting or assembling.


I even taped the paint chips to the boards so I wouldn't forget exactly which room was which color.


I was a little stumped as to what to do with the ceilings, but I happened upon some glow-in-the-dark paint at Lowe's when I was picking up some extra supplies and decided to give that a try.  (In hindsight, I probably wouldn't do this again; that part of the house rarely sees any direct light, so they never get "charged up" enough to really glow.  Oh well, it was a cool idea anyway.)


Since I had been the one to decide to make an epic dollhouse in less than a month, I did a lot of the work myself, though I didn't really mind it at all; most of the time I felt like my heart was filling with each paint stroke, each sanding, as if this was my love letter to my daughter.


I can't really tell you how excited I was when it all started to come together a bit more.


I wanted the top of the dollhouse to eventually be a little terrace area for Mollie (when she's actually tall enough to see the top of it), so I thought I'd add a decorative railing of sorts to keep any of the Barbies from falling off the edge.  This trim was just perfect with all the little dots!


The actual painting took quite a while since I couldn't retape the rooms to start on the next color until the coat I had just done was completely dry.  Luckily there was a lot of other stuff for me to do in the meantime, so little time was wasted.  (This, by the way, was a huge triumph for me; often I am the reigning queen of wasted time.)


Once all the walls were painted, the floors stained, the base sanded and painted, and the last details complete, it was time to put it together.


I really wanted to be all girl-power, I-can-do-this-by-myself-thankyouverymuch, but the task ended up being too much for me to handle by myself.  I really needed two extra hands to help keep things level and square things up so the house would be sturdy and straight.  I hated to ask Bryson, since he was a bit skeptical of the idea in the first place, but he helped out gladly and I was (and still am) extremely grateful for it.


He did not, however, appreciate me pausing to take pictures of him.


Through the process, we learned a lot about wood glue and corner clamps and things of that nature.


A few nights before her birthday and the party, I finally got to paint the "railing" in greater detail.  It was so much fun!


It was a bit of a struggle at some points, trying to use the tools we already had (and had already borrowed) and still make it right, but I really can't tell you how excited I was with the results.


I have to say, I really could not have finished the project this well and on time without the incredible help of my dear husband.  Thanks again, Bryson!  



I sneaked in a second coat of paint on the dots one morning before the reveal, then I got it all assembled (including adding dollhouse linoleum in the bathroom and laundry room) and ready to go.


The day of the party, my dad, Bryson, and our friend Shaun helped haul it up the stairs.  Thank goodness it fit, since that is one thing I had neglected to measure!


At first, Mollie had no idea what it was.  Then, when she realized it was a Barbie house, she was overjoyed!


I am happy to report that she has grown to love it even more.  I have since added a curtain in the bedroom (the giant room at the top) so the littler girls can have some extra quiet when they sleep, and lots of furniture and love have filled up some of the space.




Mattel has come out with a lot of cool house accessories for Barbie, but so many of them actually come with a Barbie now, and we were starting to develop an overpopulation problem.  So when it came to procuring a stove and sink, I ended having to make one from scratch so she wouldn't have to deal with one more plastic mouth to feed.  And, I have to say, I am pretty happy with the way it turned out.


My favorite detail is still the top trim.  I just love the punch of color it adds where you least expect it.


So that's it!  Amalia's Barbie house in all its glory.  I'm so thrilled with how it has turned out and how well it has held up thus far.  (Knock on wood!)  And, of course, how much she loves it and uses it ... that's the best, by far.

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

So ...

So it's been a while, huh?  Almost a month, really.  Awesome.  Where have I been?  Here.  Just here.  The kids have been sick on and off for quite some time now (the current illness has been with us for two weeks now), the holidays have hit full force, and all of it has been a lot for me to handle.  Attention has been at a minimum, and when something does manage to get my attention it gets all of it.  All.

Christmas shopping alone has been all-consuming.  I love giving gifts, and I love the challenge of finding the right gift for each person.  I get a little thrill when there is a knock on the door and a postal worker of some sort is there to deliver a gift meant for one of my loved ones.  (Truth be told, I really love it when my mailman comes to the door; he is beyond awesome, very happy and chatty, and he just adores it when I online shop.)  However, having two young children makes Christmas shopping quite a bit more difficult, so I end up torn ... hyperfocusing on online shopping and horribly guilty for doing just that.  All I want is to find the right gifts for people, and yet get it done early enough so I can enjoy other aspects of the holiday season; I have a bit of a one-track mind at times and figuring out what to get all my family and friends consumes almost every thought, which means being able to enjoy the tree trimming, gingerbread house making, snowball fights, and what-have-you is nearly impossible.  Once the last gift is thoughtfully purchased, however, my mind will hopefully be freed up for other jolly pursuits.  (I will, of course, have a bit of a shopping hangover/shopping withdrawl thing going on, but I'll hopefully get over that soon enough as well.)

Also, did you know that adding an 8-foot Christmas tree to an already jammed up living room creates an amazing chaos that can send the rest of the house into a tailspin?  Yes, that's right, our half-decorated tree (long story) is up and has somehow created a mess on every other surface in the house, from the floor up.  My one saving grace is that I have been diligent, nay ... dogged, about keeping our kitchen island (okay, it's really a peninsula, but ... anyway) cleared off by the end of each day.  It is so nice to wake up in the morning and be able to view that amazingly cleared off span of kitchen counter, knowing that at least one spot in the house is "company ready".

Speaking of which, I need to go clear it off.  It is my little gift to myself each day, and I want to make sure I keep it up.  Hopefully I'll be writing on here again soon!  Very, very soon!

Until then, have a wonderful night!

Saturday, September 28, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 326 (so close ...)

Today I am grateful that the living room is as cleaned up as it is.  I got a chance to reorganize our books and all the Legos the other day, and knowing that everything is taken care if is freeing, close to relaxing even.

Have a wonderful night!

A Year of Gratitude: Day 324 (a few days late)

Today I am grateful that Bryson was able to help out with the kids so I could get the applesauce made before naps.  I have so much trouble concentrating, and because he was able to help me out I got the applesauce made in half the time it took me the first time around.

So thank you, honey!  I really, really appreciate it.

Have a wonderful night!

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 314 (late)

Today I am grateful to be watching the first episode of the season of New Girl in my pajamas.  After this is done I get to toss the computer on the desk (gently, of course) and go right up to bed.  I ... need ... sleep.  And I'm working my way to getting it.

Have a wonderful night!

Thursday, September 5, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 304

Today I am grateful for this.

I am also incredibly grateful for the people, teachers and educational professionals, who care for my kiddo while he is at school.  With each interaction I am more and more impressed by his school and the level of dedication they have to all the students of the school, not just the ones they are in charge of.

Have a wonderful day!

Sunday, September 1, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 299 (a day late)

Today I am grateful for my sister, Christine.  She is an amazing baker, and yesterday she baked her heart out to help me.  She made crumpets for the kids because apparently my children are a bit British; they love having crumpets with jam for breakfast.



Just look at all that crumpety goodness!


I'm also grateful to my mom for convincing me that I didn't have enough time (or attention, let's be honest) to make a cake from scratch and that a lemon Bundt cake out of a box would work out just fine.  She was right.  I can't wait to take this to the family gathering at the cabin today!


Then, after the cake cooled, Christine supervised me while I made lemon glaze for the cake.  Without her help, it would have been a runny mess instead of this beautiful creation.



To top it all off, she made homemade Parker House rolls for me to take to the cabin.  They are gorgeous and perfect and, no doubt, delicious.  I can't wait to brag about my little sister.


So Christine, thank you for astounding me with your baking skills yet again and helping me out so very much.  It would have taken me days to do what you did in a few hours, and none of it would have come out quite as perfectly.

Have a wonderful day!

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 295

Today I am grateful I was able to take a "fast" (20 minute ... I know, I know) shower this morning.  There was a thunderstorm brewing outside, and I hate showering when I know there is lightning around, with good reason, I might add.  With all the stress I've been feeling lately I was worried that today's shower was going to be extra long, but the threat of being electrocuted certainly helped that problem.

Hooray for weird fixes!

Have a wonderful day!

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 285 (so close ...)

Today I am grateful that I finally sent out an e-mail I had been attempting to write for weeks.  It's amazing to have that kind of load off your shoulders.  Oh, and I finally got the kids' humidifier cleaned up!  Getting things done all over the place, I tell ya!

Have a wonderful night!

Friday, July 26, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 263

Today I am grateful for the help of my mom and sister.  I had a lot to get done today, and they came over to help with my to do list and to help take care of the kiddos.  I wouldn't have gotten nearly as much done without them, and I am so glad to have gotten done what I did.

Thanks, Mom and Christine!  I so appreciate the help!

Have a wonderful night!

Thursday, July 25, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 262

Today I am grateful I was able to get the mountain of paper, by and large, off my desk.  It has been building for quite some time, as evidenced by the April receipts and the March to-do lists, and it was good to finally dig in and disperse the madness.

Have a wonderful night!

Monday, July 8, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 244

Today I am grateful to have gotten three loads of laundry done and bread made.  Looking around the house, I am disheartened by how messy things are, how unkempt it all looks, and this morning I let the clutter and disorganization get the better of me.  Frustrated by my lack of concentration and follow through, I worked myself up to a sad state; so sad, in fact, that both kids tried to comfort me independent of one another.  (It is a humbling thing to have your own children comfort you.  I was both disappointed and embarrassed that I wasn't holding it together for them and so proud of them for being so compassionate.  Such a bittersweet moment, to be sure.)

In any case, I am glad that I was able to turn it around a bit and make a small dent in the mess.  Baby steps, right?

Have a wonderful night!

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 202 (a day late)

Today I am grateful for having gotten the stove top cleaned this afternoon right before I made dinner.  (I am also grateful that none of the chili we were having for dinner spilled on my newly-cleaned stove top.)

There's just something about having a clean cooking space that makes you feel like you might be getting your life together.

Have a wonderful night!

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 195

Today I am grateful for how this morning started.  I woke up exhausted and had a tough time getting through my shower with any sort of speed, but when I got downstairs something magical happened: I actually got stuff done.  I put away a bunch of the kids' toys in effort to curb the crazy messes they've been making lately, I cleaned off most of the island, I got rid of toys that needed to be gotten rid of (Wendy's kid's meal toys, anyone?).

And not only was it wonderful because I was being productive, but because I had been productive (and had still managed to check my e-mail and scan facebook for any earth-shattering updates) I was able to feel ready and glad to see Mollie when she woke up.  (Baylor, too, but he woke up after her, and that second wake-up is typically less jarring for me.)

Here's hoping I can hold onto that feeling and start to make my mornings better!

Have a wonderful night!

Saturday, May 11, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 184 (a day late)

Today I am grateful to have gotten a ton of laundry done.  And not just done in the washer and dryer, but the kids' clothes have been put away, mine are folded (or hanging dry), the napkins and towels are all tucked into their respective drawers ... it's a refreshing feeling.  That amazing feeling of not having something so small hanging over your head.  All day I walk around this house with visual reminders of all the things I haven't "gotten to yet", sitting around here hanging over my head.  And to get so much done today felt awesome.

Have a wonderful night!

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Torn

To say that this morning was frustrating is putting it mildly.  Spring break has proved to be a difficult change for us; our schedule is thrown out of whack, productivity is bottoming out, and I feel like I'm at a breaking point.

This morning's issue was that we have about ten library books due today (we have nineteen total at our house ... it's amazing how out of control that got), and I wanted to make sure they don't end up overdue.  In the most relaxed and perky way possible, I tried to get the kids to help me make a schedule for our morning so we could maximize our time out.  First we were going to go to the library and exchange the books, then we were going to go get haircuts for the kids, then to the bank to pick up the beginning of the grocery money for the month, and finally to the grocery store to pick up a few essentials.  It is easily doable, though it sounds like a lot when you list it out like that.

Our first roadblock was breakfast; Mollie decided to drag it out as long as possible, taking about an hour and a half to eat a bowl of yogurt and half a piece of cinnamon toast.  Baylor, surprisingly, moved through breakfast pretty well, but with Mollie stuck up at the counter nursing hers for as long as possible, he stalled out on the rest of his "getting ready" to do list.  He went to the bathroom, got his socks on, but then fell short of taking off his pj pants and actually getting dressed.

At one point I basically told them that if they didn't get ready, I would just start taking away all the fun stuff I had planned on our outing (e.g., checking out more books, the hair cut entirely, riding Sandy at Meijer) to make up for the lost time.  I felt terrible saying that, though; and all the while I could hear my inner dialogue, chock full of dos and don'ts, shoulds and shouldn'ts, and everything in between that I have read in books, on the Internet, and in magazines, arguing about whether it was best to just make it a happy day or to tow the line and not let them get away with anything (can't cave to whining and such, after all).  The one main thought, though, was, "This is not the mom I want to be."

Regardless, in no time they were both in the living room tearing apart the couch concocting some elaborate spy story/caveman scenario.  Meanwhile, I was in the kitchen, near tears, mind racing, and having chest pains.  All I could think was "What the hell am I supposed to do?!  Do I nurture their curiosity and just let them play?  I need to let them go with the flow, right?  But what about the day we had planned out?  They have no respect for me whatsoever ... and my heart is breaking.  I'm a bad mother, aren't I?  I can't even get us out the damn door."  It spiraled on from there.  Fun, huh?

Eventually Baylor, who has newly become vigilant about what time it is and "are we running late", suddenly asked when we were going to go.  The little muscle inside me holding back the tears broke with his words, and I started crying.  I wanted to yell so badly and cry as hard as I felt I needed to, but I could tell me crying was starting to freak Baylor out as it was so I tried my best to rein it in.  I explained to them in the shakiest of voices that, in order to get everything done we had talked about, they needed to do what I told them to do when I told them to do it.  I had already made up my mind that we would just stay in for the day and say "screw it" to the need-to-dos, but Baylor, so sweetly trying to make me feel better, suggested that we just go out to the library and Snip Its and leave the grocery store for tomorrow.  Though I informed him of the fact that we have a visitor (his PLAY therapist) coming tomorrow morning and would likely not be able to go to Meijer then, I was proud of him for staying calm in the anxiety-riddled situation and went along with it.

As I got them ready, I could still feel the heaviness in my chest weighing down on me, all my emotions bottled up with no place to go but in.  It is weird, but it seemed like I could actually feel the damage stress is doing to my heart and it scared me ... a lot.  I don't want to leave my kids early because I can't handle and reduce stress like I need to.  Even now as I type this, I can feel the twinge of pain in my chest and it scares the crap out of me.  I wish I knew what else to say about this, but I guess this is what I needed to motivate me to take charge of the stress in my life.  We'll see where this goes.

(As always, I am not searching for pity or attention or anything.  Just wanted to share in case someone else is feeling the same and felt alone.)

Thursday, March 21, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 133 (a day late)

Today I am grateful that my mom was able to come over to my house for a while yesterday and help me get ready for Mollie's birthday party.  I am not the best house keeper, even though I was raised by one who is, and it was nice to have some help in focusing on the stuff that needed to get done - and someone to just hang with Mollie (and Baylor, after we brought him home from school) while I rushed around and did stuff.  I focus so much better when someone else is here, thank you ADD, and it was nice to get so much done in such a short amount of time.

So thanks again, Mom!  I appreciate it more than I can really express!

Have a wonderful day!

Saturday, March 9, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 121 (a day late)

Today I am grateful for the hour-and-a-half mad dash clean-up I did this afternoon before some friends came over.  It's amazing how much I can get done when my adrenaline starts pumping!  I did laundry, washed dishes, cleaned countertops and the stovetop and the sink, vacuumed under the dining room table, started dinner ... seriously, it was unreal.  If only I could replicate that without the heart-pounding burst of energy that an unexpected deadline gives me.

I'm also grateful that our friends came over tonight.  It has been way too long since we last saw them, and it was so good to catch up and let the kids go off and play together.

Have a wonderful night!

Sunday, March 3, 2013

A Year of Gratitude: Day 116

Today I am grateful that I was able to pull myself away from the TV (Arrested Development is SO funny!) and the couch to get to bed at a reasonable hour.  I am in desperate need of some rest, and I'm glad I was able to "break the force field" so to speak and move towards bed.

With that said, have a wonderful night!